Abuse is something that we do not like to openly talk about, or share. Abuse no matter what the type is cruel and destructive and it can ruin lives.

When we look at the behaviours of those around us, especially behaviours that are troublesome or out of the ordinary it could be an indicator that something is going on elsewhere in their lives. Challenging behaviour doesn’t necessarily mean someone is being abused but it can be a symptom.

Children and teenagers who have experienced abuse or neglect may display disruptive behaviours, challenging behaviours, aggressive behaviours and even violent behaviours. They are also more likely to display risky behaviours such as alcohol, drugs and sexual activities. Young people who have been abused or who are being abused are more likely to show negative outcomes that carry forward into adult life. These negative outcomes include emotional regulation, self-concept (image, worth and esteem), social skills and sense of community, academic motivation and participation.

Behaviours can shed light on the emotional well-being of a young person, and can be a good indicator that there is an underlining problem.

This section has been created to provide information about abuse and all the different types of abuse and where you can get help as a parent, a care giver or the victim. Abuse is lonely and it is isolating and it can leave you feeling lost, desperate, angry and broken.

If you are being abused it is important that you seek help, you deserve so much better regardless of what you are told. You have the right to a life free from abuse and suffering and you have the right to not be abused. You deserve better and there is help available no matter who you are, where you are or how old you are. Help is available.

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Abuse is when someone causes you harm or distress intentionally. It can take many different kinds or forms. Abuse isn’t just physical injury or harm, it is also mental and emotional and it can also come in the form of financial (money and belongings)

Abuse can happen anywhere, it can happen at home, it can happen at school, in a care home, in a hospital, it can even happen in public places. Not everyone is an abuser so please don’t be scared to go to places, these are just examples to let you know that abuse isn’t restricted to one place or another.

If someone is doing something and it causes you pain or distress or makes you feel sad or down, then that is a good indicator that it is not okay and it is not right.

It is important that you talk to someone that you trust, like relative or a teacher.